Unraveling the truth behind 'I'm sorry.' Discover the 3 R's of genuine apologies: remorse, responsibility, and repair. Learn to discern between sincere regret and empty words, navigating the emotional landscapes of apologies. Equip yourself to detect genuine intent vs. manipulation.
3 Reasons Relationships Turn Toxic
Ever wonder why some relationships with friends, coworkers, partners, or family members shift from harmonious to harmful? In today's video, I explore three foundational reasons why relationships can become toxic. Drawing from personal experience and years of observation, I share about patterns we might accidentally create, and how we can find our way to healthier connections.
The Wrong Way to Set Boundaries
Have you ever gotten a text that immediately makes you feel annoyed or guilty? Today we're talking about those seemingly friendly texts that unexpectedly trigger a cascade feelings of negative feelings. Join us as we explore the hidden dynamics behind friendships that should feel fine but end up feeling uncomfortable. Learn three warning signs to look for and how to respond when you don’t want to engage.
Covert Narcissism: Don't Fall for It
Uncover the hidden world of Covert Narcissism and Emotional Abuse. Featuring relatable Pop Culture examples and actionable Recovery Steps.
People Pleasing & Narcissists: Why We Attract Them, How to Break Free & 3 Key Tools
Uncover the psychology of people pleasing and break free from narcissistic cycles. Learn why we do it, why we must stop, and get actionable steps for change. Reclaim your life now!
Gaslighting Exposed: The Hidden Impact on Self-Esteem
Ever felt like going crazy, being the only one remembering things differently? It might be gaslighting - a subtle psychological abuse making you doubt your sanity. In this episode, I talk about what gaslighting is, how it works, and how it can impact your self-esteem. I also share some tips on how to protect yourself from gaslighting and how to recover your self-esteem if you have been on the receiving end of this form of abuse.
How to Handle Manipulative People
If you're wondering how to deal with manipulative people, it's probably because you have a master manipulator in your life. Toxic people like narcissists, borderlines, addicts, and bullies are very good at triggering your empathy, pulling your strings, and it's difficult to know how to navigate. Keep toxic relationships at a distance, help protect you as you heal, and regain peace. If you're a people pleaser, an empath, or simply an agreeable nice person, you might be attracting manipulative people. Learn why people manipulate, why you attract manipulative people, and exactly how to deal with a manipulative person. You'll learn how healthy boundaries help you avoid toxic people, and what to expect when you try to stop being manipulated. Learn about crab pot theory, also known as crab bucket mentality, and how this relates to healing from dysfunction, codependency, and abuse.
Codependency & Emotional Vampires: The Power of Boundaries
Discover the power of setting healthy boundaries in this eye-opening episode of the Meadow DeVor Podcast! Learn how to protect your self-esteem from the two biggest threats: codependency and emotional vampires. We'll dive into practical tips and strategies to help you regain control of your life and relationships. Don't let others drain your energy and happiness – it's time to embrace your true value! If you find this content helpful, make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more confidence-boosting episodes every week!
Embracing Boundaries: How Saying "No" Can Empower You
Do you struggle with setting boundaries and saying "no" to others? Do you often feel guilty or selfish when you try to prioritize your own needs? In this episode, you'll learn the power of embracing boundaries and how it can empower you to take back control of your life. I share 5 practical steps to help you set boundaries and say "no" with confidence, so you can prioritize your own well-being and live a more fulfilling life. Join me on this journey of self-discovery and learn how to embrace boundaries to unlock your true potential.
Surviving the Vulnerability Hangover: Finding Your Self-Worth
In this episode, I share the 4-step process for surviving a vulnerability hangover and building self-worth. If you've ever shared something personal or vulnerable, you might have experienced a vulnerability hangover - that feeling of regret, shame, or anxiety that comes after opening up. Learn what vulnerability hangovers are, why they happen, and most importantly, how to cope with them. It can be crippling to your self-esteem and prevent you from being your true self. I also discuss the importance of finding your self-worth and how to go about it. Join me for this empowering discussion on self-worth and vulnerability hangover.
Break Free from People Pleasing: Guide to Embrace Your True Value
In this episode, we're going to delve deeper into the consequences of being a people pleaser and how to break free from this harmful pattern. Do you constantly find yourself agreeing to things you don't want to do just to avoid conflict? Are you tired of always putting other people's needs ahead of your own? If so, this episode is for you. We'll explore the negative impact people pleasing has on your mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. But don't worry, we'll also share practical tips on how to overcome this tendency and start embracing your true worth. From setting boundaries to cultivating self-awareness, you'll discover how to create a more fulfilling life on your own terms. Don't waste any more time living for others. It's time to break free from people pleasing and start living for yourself. Start listening now.
How to Find Peace: Self-Worth During Holidays
Ever feel overwhelmed when it's time to see the in-laws? What about family gatherings? Holidays? In this episode I give you a quick and reliable tool to change the voice in your head from worthless to worthy. I give you an example of the types of thoughts that I have and what I do (in real time) to build self-worth and get myself ready for any family event.
The Surprising Way Self-Worth Affects Boundaries in Parenting
Does self-worth affect your parenting? The answer is yes. In this episode I share about how boundaries affect parenting, self-worth, and trust. I give you a "before-and-after" example of what my parenting looked like when my self-esteem was in the gutter and what parenting looked like "after" I had a strong sense of self worth. Learn why self-worth work is critical for parents and easy steps to help you start your own worthy work.
The Harsh Truth About Self-Worth and Dealing with Mean Girls
How do you hold your own when you're dealing with someone who isn't very nice? How do you build self-worth (or at least not de-value yourself) when you're dealing with a "mean girl"? In this episode, I share my old strategy (spoiler alert: it was a reliable recipe for constantly devaluing myself) and I share the strategy that I take now. Learn how to keep your sense of "self" and why that builds self-worth.